To persue or not to persue?

A lot of people say, I don't have preference in choosing a girlfriend. Well... all I can say is...yup...iM befriends to everyone!!!... The one that iM very choosey is choosing my special GF, which will eventually be, hopefully be the mother of my children.

I've always have the same situation if I'm in love. In love with someone who is attached with someone else or maybe they just want me to be their friend. But now, I think iM falling in Love again with someone who might be in love with me too. And theres always a But in the sentence, shes having a tough time with her BF. He has been neglecting her and always claiming that his single. I cant give her advice to dump him and be with me ...can i??... It wont make me a better person after all!!..

But how could you retain this feeling to yourself??...how could you not accidently say something that might be a "disaster" to your steps of getting her?!...

And If i dont say it to her....how could she knows that iM attracted to her?..and when its too late...you'll back to square one!!!

So...how would you handle this situation?...how would u be yourself?...