Trust
Taken from my own Journal
Trust is something which is very subjective manner for one person to another. Its how you trust or getting comfortable to you or in the dictionary terms " to get reliance to one another" or "to depend on". Well..for me.. I can regard, trust from a scale of 1 to 10 , 1 not trusting and 10 is "i trust him/her with my life" depending how well i know you. Trusting a family member or Love ones falls above 10. I'm not talking about trust with spouses but Im talking about trust in general.
For me, just knowing a person or got introduced to some person, my scale of trust is 1.It can grow through time and you just get 10 points out of 10 for trusting a newly known person. It grows proportional against time. The longer you know that person, the more trust u award to him/her. But once trust is lost, its hard to gain it back.
Trusting works with another saying "Dont judge a book by its cover". He/she seems nice, but you cant just award them with more than 5 on the scale of trust... It doesnt mean that he/she looks nice, praying to God (regardless of what religion) without fail and also he/she is so kind and bubbly with us. You barely know this person, but should you trust them?.. Personally its hard for me. I have to know this person 1st, ask around the details about them...maybe get some information from Interpol or something...as long as you get the facts right..then you can trust him/her. If you dont do the "researching" enough, you never know how the real person they are and then you'll feel regret in the end for trusting them. They can just "stab you in the back" before you know it.
For me its easy, I never trust strangers... I've come acrossed many kinds of people. The religious or pious person can be very deciving. The have the beautiful front but deep inside them, they can be very mean. Im not talking about all...but the people I've come across so far. But it appears oppositely to the ones you see like a drug addict, but their way of life...trusting is an honarable stuff to them. If you see the Mafias or something, they trust on another with their lives. Even with my friends, not all are the same, therefore the level of trust amongst them are different.
We may be kind, or good intention to others, but we never know how they are to us. Once you are honoured some trust from someone, take care of it... But always be aware of people. they can be fake, or they have other agendas to you. Never trust people easily or you will regret in the end.
Trust is something which is very subjective manner for one person to another. Its how you trust or getting comfortable to you or in the dictionary terms " to get reliance to one another" or "to depend on". Well..for me.. I can regard, trust from a scale of 1 to 10 , 1 not trusting and 10 is "i trust him/her with my life" depending how well i know you. Trusting a family member or Love ones falls above 10. I'm not talking about trust with spouses but Im talking about trust in general.
For me, just knowing a person or got introduced to some person, my scale of trust is 1.It can grow through time and you just get 10 points out of 10 for trusting a newly known person. It grows proportional against time. The longer you know that person, the more trust u award to him/her. But once trust is lost, its hard to gain it back.
Trusting works with another saying "Dont judge a book by its cover". He/she seems nice, but you cant just award them with more than 5 on the scale of trust... It doesnt mean that he/she looks nice, praying to God (regardless of what religion) without fail and also he/she is so kind and bubbly with us. You barely know this person, but should you trust them?.. Personally its hard for me. I have to know this person 1st, ask around the details about them...maybe get some information from Interpol or something...as long as you get the facts right..then you can trust him/her. If you dont do the "researching" enough, you never know how the real person they are and then you'll feel regret in the end for trusting them. They can just "stab you in the back" before you know it.
For me its easy, I never trust strangers... I've come acrossed many kinds of people. The religious or pious person can be very deciving. The have the beautiful front but deep inside them, they can be very mean. Im not talking about all...but the people I've come across so far. But it appears oppositely to the ones you see like a drug addict, but their way of life...trusting is an honarable stuff to them. If you see the Mafias or something, they trust on another with their lives. Even with my friends, not all are the same, therefore the level of trust amongst them are different.
We may be kind, or good intention to others, but we never know how they are to us. Once you are honoured some trust from someone, take care of it... But always be aware of people. they can be fake, or they have other agendas to you. Never trust people easily or you will regret in the end.
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