Sacrifies...
had a nice long chat with my dear friend, Tiar in my room with a cup of TEH tarik...made by moi!!... about relationships, sacrifices, the past, and our own experiences... Well...Tiar was in town for couple of days and she came with her mom for some business trip...
Relationships in general are a blessing... One are made for another... No person in this face of this earth is capable to be alone, even though they claim to be "independent" or not married because they dont need another person in their life to make their lives easier... But actually they are totally wrong... They are dependen to others really...maybe they dont realised it...but they do.. Having friends is a relationship... Having a family is a relationship...if you chose to be alone... then what is this life for?!?... why God created Adam and Eve?....
Having a relationship means a lot of things...Not only love...but also sacrifices... when we are single... we tend to do something that we pleased.... something that whatever our hearts want to do... and what ever we think its right...even it was wrong to do so... But...when u are living or with someone... We cant do something we want to do freely...because it involves another heart...another emotion...another life... There's no other way to avoid sacrifices...Its for you to accommodate to ones' life...and to yours....
Love does come with a price... No im not talking about money or anything...but Theres always something you gotta change in yourself.. some dreams you've dreamt of need to be changed.... It doesnt mean you cant achieve your dream...but..its a diversion that we need to take... the path wont be straight anymore... as long the diverted path leads to the destination we're heading...
I've read the book The AlChemist by Paulo Coelho twice and it doesnt bore me but it actually motivates me... Its about a shepard trying to achieve his personal legend, which is his dreams to find treasures underneath the Pyramids... He could stay and become a shepard and get married to a merchant's daughter and be happily ever after.. but he choose to follow his dreams... He got robbed, almost get himself killed, worked for a merchant and also became the Khalif (some well known scholar) in the Oasis...He never failed to follow his dreams even though many obstacles of life try to divert his way... and at the end..he didnt get his treasure...but he got to see his Pyramids tho..and also..gained experiences that a shepard couldnt have experienced...
For me... Sacrifices are not that bad... We could planned our life...but we cant plan the path of our journey we planned.. its just the way of life... To cope with this kind of life is...to enjoy every moment you are in life... thats is how u experienced stuff.... dont be too rigid to life... flexible and enjoy them to the fullest... its just the way it is... Its not wrong to be in a comfort zone when we planned our lives...but would it be as exciting as the unplanned life?!.. there are consequences that we will face and i will write about it later.. Uncertainties...
Till next time
iDAN
Relationships in general are a blessing... One are made for another... No person in this face of this earth is capable to be alone, even though they claim to be "independent" or not married because they dont need another person in their life to make their lives easier... But actually they are totally wrong... They are dependen to others really...maybe they dont realised it...but they do.. Having friends is a relationship... Having a family is a relationship...if you chose to be alone... then what is this life for?!?... why God created Adam and Eve?....
Having a relationship means a lot of things...Not only love...but also sacrifices... when we are single... we tend to do something that we pleased.... something that whatever our hearts want to do... and what ever we think its right...even it was wrong to do so... But...when u are living or with someone... We cant do something we want to do freely...because it involves another heart...another emotion...another life... There's no other way to avoid sacrifices...Its for you to accommodate to ones' life...and to yours....
Love does come with a price... No im not talking about money or anything...but Theres always something you gotta change in yourself.. some dreams you've dreamt of need to be changed.... It doesnt mean you cant achieve your dream...but..its a diversion that we need to take... the path wont be straight anymore... as long the diverted path leads to the destination we're heading...
I've read the book The AlChemist by Paulo Coelho twice and it doesnt bore me but it actually motivates me... Its about a shepard trying to achieve his personal legend, which is his dreams to find treasures underneath the Pyramids... He could stay and become a shepard and get married to a merchant's daughter and be happily ever after.. but he choose to follow his dreams... He got robbed, almost get himself killed, worked for a merchant and also became the Khalif (some well known scholar) in the Oasis...He never failed to follow his dreams even though many obstacles of life try to divert his way... and at the end..he didnt get his treasure...but he got to see his Pyramids tho..and also..gained experiences that a shepard couldnt have experienced...
For me... Sacrifices are not that bad... We could planned our life...but we cant plan the path of our journey we planned.. its just the way of life... To cope with this kind of life is...to enjoy every moment you are in life... thats is how u experienced stuff.... dont be too rigid to life... flexible and enjoy them to the fullest... its just the way it is... Its not wrong to be in a comfort zone when we planned our lives...but would it be as exciting as the unplanned life?!.. there are consequences that we will face and i will write about it later.. Uncertainties...
Till next time
iDAN
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